Monday 12 January 2015

How to Deduce if a person is lying

      This post is specifically to teach you what are various lying gesture. But one thing should be firmly remembered that there is not a single gesture which can clearly say that the person is lying hence we always have to confirm our suspicion based on more than one gesture.

            Before moving ahead , i want you to explain that it's not necessary that the person using this gesture is lying it can also mean that he is hiding something or may be just getting bored and hence don't depend on only single gesture.To be accurate we need to make deduction form number of similar gesture in cluster. 

         The best way to start learning about these gesture is by understanding " 3 wise monkey".

          Has we can see that the first images say's hear no EVIL, this would be one of the gesture you should be looking for to spot a lie. But this gesture will come in disguise because the person lying will only give a small touch to his ears instead of closing his entire hear as it will make very obvious to others that he is lying. Other than the person lying this gesture will also be produced by the person hearing a lie as if he is trying to tell " I don't want to hear more from you because i know you are lying"

The 2nd monkey say's see no EVIL, this again comes has handy tool to detect a lie, because the person who is lying will start touching his eye because he want's to reduce the eye contact when he is lying and all of us are aware that lying to someone by looking in their eye is very difficult. 

 Again let me tell you that this gesture of rubbing eye's can also be produced by person hearing the lie as if giving a message " I don't want to see you, because i know you are lying"

The 3rd monkey say's say no EVIL, which makes it obvious that the person trying to speak lie will cover his mouth because his brain signals him to do so unconciously but if he covers his entire mouth than it will look very obvious to everybody that he is lying and hence instead iof covering the mouth he'll just touch his finger near his lips of nose .

 This three basic ideas can be very well used to develop a suspicion but cannot be used to confirm the suspicion because along with this gesture we need to observe various other micro gesture which i'll be telling in my future post 

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